Friday 8 January 2016

Is it IGNORANCE or REBELLION?





It started gradually, from little misbehaviors, to obvious deviation and now, there seems to be a huge turn or do I say a new definition of various things; values, morals, norms, truth… Now, in my late twenties I feel like I’m already too old to understand this generation because the things I used to know as wrong, all of a sudden now just feel like I’m stupid to think them wrong. 

Now, it’s either a result of the ignorance of a young unlearned heart or the rebellion of it that keeps this ASD (Acute Sense Deficiency) popular.  

The other day, I was driving within town and someone was following really closely and wouldn’t stop honking recklessly, so I slowed down and parked, only to find out it was a young man I used to know back in the days, as a little boy, in fact, a baby, many years younger than I, with his friends in the car and the next thing, he says something like ‘babe what’s up’? He didn’t even border to alight to say a proper hello.

I was dumb founded, all I could manage was a plastic smile and in my mind, “I don’t blame you, after-all, I’m driving and you are driving…if I land you slap now...” When I finally got home, I couldn’t stop thinking about that episode. Whatever happened to a polite and respectful ‘good evening’ after honking me to a halt?
 Just a minute; I don’t get it when a wee born walks up to me and says, ‘What’s up’? The sky of course! Since when did that become a manner of greeting? Or, ‘how far’? Not so far from dropping a knock on that tiny head of yours, that might probably jolt your senses to order. Gosh! Is that what the jet age has turned us into? Come on! Some informal methods of greetings are only meant for people of your age group and pairs, not your elders! Elders should not just be greeted, but greeted appropriately.

I must admit, there was that sense of a bruised ego attached to what I felt, which in itself is wrong, and trust me, I had nothing against the young man driving or his person for that matter, but it just stirred up an imperfect aspect of my mind as at then, a testimony to the fact that unnecessary self inflicted beef can result from such a ‘minor’ indiscretion. Well I’m glad what I felt is now replaced by genuine concern for this young man and his like, but when I see the likes of them, I still need to let out some steam so I don’t give someone the length of my tongue in anger but in love.

Proverbs 27:14

To be continued...

                                                   

To whom it may concern directly, I thought I'd send you flowers so you know how much I love you regardless! No beefs, i promise.





15 comments:

  1. Please feel free to leave a comment on what do you think should have been the proper way for the young man to behave? Because far as I know, he probable just wanted to say hello. Is there a better way to have said that hello to elicit appreciation and admiration or am I just being too respect conscious?

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  2. Lol. Small pikins of dat year. Quite intresting a script. Such as I lov to read

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  3. I frown strongly at such attitude and no sense of decorum act from these youths. It's killing and I feel like giving someone a knock but I can't (who I be? )when get it from little cousins I changed their diapers (smh). So I've resolved to use that vexing energy on other things and learn to correct them in love. But not all would want to be corrected after all.
    Well done sis. Beautiful one here. Please complete it ehm.

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    1. Emmie, any food in the kitchen today? Lol.
      Thanks for your comment.
      That's the challenge- to correct in love. Because sometimes you are so upset you don't know when you lash out. I know its a gradual process and we are getting there.

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  4. I frown strongly at such attitude and no sense of decorum act from these youths. It's killing and I feel like giving someone a knock but I can't (who I be? )when get it from little cousins I changed their diapers (smh). So I've resolved to use that vexing energy on other things and learn to correct them in love. But not all would want to be corrected after all.
    Well done sis. Beautiful one here. Please complete it ehm.

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  5. The ones that even say "what's up" are better. What of the ones that don't greet at all. They will be looking at you straight in the eyes. God will help us dear.

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    1. God help us indeed dear. For the ones that don't greet at all, maybe we need to scout the bushes for water cane. Lol

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  6. I do actually get ur point.I for 1 i dnt go by an elderly person wether a year or more olda dan me without greetin.our generation feel d native greetin is 2 much respect so dey rather settle for d hi's nd hello's nd d watsup's.i passed by a boy of 7 @ church nd he was staring me in d eyes n walked pass me i called him back nd greeted him gud mornin sir before he realized himself.i think its our duty to remind our generation say "dem dey chop greeting".

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    1. You did just right to have called him back, awesome! Thats the method I think we all should adopt. Its a way of playing our role in the society.
      And yes, my dear, greeting is a most sumptuous emotional delicacy. People just don't understand the wealth of its nutritional value yet.

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  7. I want to thank everyone who has dropped a comment and is yet to, You actually made my day and this is making more sense because of you. Thank you.



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  8. I want to thank everyone who has dropped a comment and is yet to, You actually made my day and this is making more sense because of you. Thank you.



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  9. More grace Fidel!
    Moral values have for long been eroding in the society, and it is the responsibility of anyone who notices such, young or old, to call the deviant to order. And as mentioned earlier, it may even require that you greet such person first, similar to when you're run into by someone and the person refuses to say sorry! I think when you tell the person something like "Sorry O!", it should trigger some sense of "guilt" (give me the word) in the person.
    You asked whether it's ignorance or rebellion? I think it is rebellion, because the laws (and the norms) have been kept in our hearts, either a choice has been made to deviate or allowance has been made to choke the norm out of memory.
    In short, "Back to Sense" has to be taught and re-taught in homes, schools and churches.

    Once again, Well-done.

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  10. More grace Fidel!
    Moral values have for long been eroding in the society, and it is the responsibility of anyone who notices such, young or old, to call the deviant to order. And as mentioned earlier, it may even require that you greet such person first, similar to when you're run into by someone and the person refuses to say sorry! I think when you tell the person something like "Sorry O!", it should trigger some sense of "guilt" (give me the word) in the person.
    You asked whether it's ignorance or rebellion? I think it is rebellion, because the laws (and the norms) have been kept in our hearts, either a choice has been made to deviate or allowance has been made to choke the norm out of memory.
    In short, "Back to Sense" has to be taught and re-taught in homes, schools and churches.

    Once again, Well-done.

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